For so long, I carried a deep fear of opening up to others and forming real connections. I struggled to trust, not just others, but also myself. I kept people at a distance, afraid that being vulnerable would only lead to disappointment or rejection. It felt safer to stay guarded, but that safety came at the cost of loneliness and a longing for genuine friendships.

Everything changed when I made the decision to join a group of women for a weekend spa retreat in Glencoe. I was hesitant at first—worried I wouldn’t fit in, that I’d struggle to connect—but something inside me told me to take the leap.

That weekend became a turning point I never expected. Surrounded by the raw beauty of Glencoe and the warmth of women who were open, honest, and accepting, I felt safe enough to let my guard down. Through shared conversations, laughter, and quiet moments of reflection, I began to trust in myself again. I learned that true connection doesn’t come from perfection—it comes from showing up as your authentic self, flaws and all.

That experience gave me the courage to reach out and form friendships that are now deeply meaningful and life-affirming. I’m no longer afraid to let people see the real me. I’ve learned that vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the foundation of genuine connection. That one decision, that one weekend, transformed my life in ways I never imagined possible.

And I Love you all for that beautiful gift

Lee xx